Fix duplicate inbox deliveries

The issues has been extensively documented here, but the gist of it is that due to the fact that determine_inbox function went unused in !4004 (merged), the server started repeatedly delivering the same activities to each user-specific inbox, causing DoS on large servers with users that have lots of followers. This MR reuses said function.

Checklist

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